Sunday, July 31, 2011

I Still Can't Believe She's Coming Back.

That's right Shania is coming back. Her concerts will begin in December of next year in Las Vegas at Caesars Palace Colosseum. I remember the last time she took a long break and it was so much fun getting to go see her again. Vegas is such a fun place anyways. Got to be there at least two or three times while she's performing.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

The Definition of Commitment

People have heard me quote this one thousand times. The definition of commitment is doing the things you said you would do long after the feeling you said it in has left you.

Well I have a "friend", we'll call her, that I don't think has ever truly understood how deeply I believe in that quote. What's funny about this, Little Friend said it was/is one of the things she liked about me the most. When I said something was going to happen it always happened. And I told her I'm very slow to commit but once I am committed I will get the job done or be dead along the side of the road trying.

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

The Distraction - Commitment

One more gone!!  Just when I think I know someone I am wrong again. The Distraction = Gone
Maybe The Distraction will read this.

The Definition Of Commitment Is Doing The Thing You Said You Would Do Long After The Feeling You Said It In Has Left You. - Jeff Olson

Monday, July 25, 2011

Common Denominator

I was sitting here thinking about some of my ex-girlfriends, and the common denominator that they all have is they are not with me anymore. So then the question is, is it personal or is it just just how dating goes?

Ex-girlfriend number one:
Has been married twice and is a single mother.

Ex-girlfriend number two (The M-Word):
Never been married and no kids.

 Ex-girlfriend number three (Littleone):
Been married once and no kids.

Ex-girlfriend number four (Little Blonde):
Currently on her second marriage and one child from the first marriage.

Well, I guess when I look at it that way I would have to say that's just how dating goes. I am just so glad I don't have any marriages or kids from the past. The only thing worse than being in a bad relationship for a year is being in a bad relationship for a year and one day.

Sunday, July 24, 2011


Streets are closed down, live satellite trucks are rolling in, to cover the Warren Jeffs trial tomorrow here in San Angelo one block from my office

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Friday, July 22, 2011

Distraction? - Good or Bad?

Okay, here is the question, if you've got a lot of stuff going on that's not necessarily good stuff, is it okay to have a distraction?

I have a lot of different things going on business wise and personal that we will call a growing experience. Then out of nowhere a distraction was dropped in my life.

You know since I nickname people, this is actually a great nickname for this person. The Distraction. It is amazing at least for guys or at least me how much one little female can distract me from all the negative in my life. Really, is that okay to have a distraction? Or is this considered using someone?

Generally when you speak of using someone, that is considered a bad thing. But let me be clear, this person does not know that I am using them as a distraction, because I just figured it out myself. I heard a quote about happiness that said, "happiness is for as long as it lasts." So if this is true, is it okay to be happy while I'm distracted by the distraction?

Saturday, July 16, 2011


Very very true

Formula for a successful relationship is: The quality of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it is built on a solid underlying friendship and meets the needs of the two people involved. 


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Monday, July 4, 2011

July 4th --Atlantis --"Forgive her and Yourself"

I was looking back and a year ago I wrote "1 year ago today my whole world fell apart!
July 4th" If you want to read "The Back Story Click Here"  Today still has a big sting for me. 

It was July 4th 2005 and Littleone and I had just gotten back from Atlantis. I knew something was not right but I had no idea what it was. Or how bad it was. I have still never really healed from all that had happen. People would say "Forgive her and Yourself"  I never knew how to start to heal over this or how to forgive. Until the other day. I heard that "The Definition of Forgiveness is Letting go of the Hope that the Past can Ever be Changed" 

That fits me to a tee. Honesty I want the past to be different so, so badly.