Doctor Girl Waste Of Time - Sort Of ???

I went out on my adventure yesterday. We didn't have a lot of time so we went straight to the movie and then we grabbed some food afterwards. (I know this probably sounds bad but it was kind of a turn on that she barely ate anything)

She was very sweet and polite and all I could have asked for under different circumstances. My head and my heart just wasn't in it. I remember a friend telling me this a long time ago. Most of the time when you stop dating someone and start dating someone new you're just exchanging problems. So in my example MISS had A,B and C problems. And if I started dating the new girl, I would be just exchanging those for E, F and G problems. They're the same problems just usually different subjects or different topics. It's usually better to just stay and work out the first set of problems pending that both partners are willing to do this.

That's where my actual problem lies right now. If MISS is not willing to stick it out and work through the problems. I cannot make her want to do this. That's what used to drive me crazy and I couldn't let go. I would try to make them want to do it. If she doesn't want to, she just doesn't want to. And that's okay. It was a good distraction and who knows what will happen in the future. Right now I'm just having a really hard time trusting anyone. I just sort of feel duped. The thing I did like about MISS is I felt like it started in friendship. I usually have better luck that way. So now I'm just focusing on moving forward. On we go to the next Shania Twain and Taylor Swift concert.