Clueless - Perfect

Here’s my question... There are countless movies, books and love songs out there. Most written by men. I don’t get it. I’ve never met a man who showed that kind of love to me. Is it me? Is it because I haven’t met that one yet? Or are men in general

not like those movies, books and love songs?
Help me out Wilde. I need to know. How does a man really feel when he’s in love? Does he think all those mushy romantic things but reigns them in so he’s manly? Or is he simply not that complicated and only figuring a way to get the lady in the bedroom? To all the male readers out there, HELP! Please comment and give me your thoughts as well. - Perfect